Kenyans Live

Potentash

Kenyan lifestyle publication covering relationships, culture, wellness, travel, careers, business and personal development.

The Singlehood Series: I’ve Been Secretly Seeing My Ex For Years
PotentashRelationships

The Singlehood Series: I’ve Been Secretly Seeing My Ex For Years

My ex and I have taken the definition of a toxic relationship to a whole other level. I can’t stand the guy, but for some reason, I can’t leave him alone. He seems to feel the same way because we end up arguing and swearing that we’re…

5 min read
The Singlehood Series: I Decided To Date Like A Man And I Hated It
PotentashRelationships

The Singlehood Series: I Decided To Date Like A Man And I Hated It

I was tired of taking Ls in my dating life. I’d had my fair share of heartbreaks. I could write an anthology about men breadcrumbing and ghosting me, and that was when they were not lying or stealing something from me. You know, men.…

5 min read
Your Place Is Not Our Place: Why Relationships Need Clearer Boundaries
PotentashRelationships

Your Place Is Not Our Place: Why Relationships Need Clearer Boundaries

We’ve all had those moments where we question if we’re being unreasonable in our relationships. You know the feeling when everyone around you is telling you one thing, but your gut is screaming something completely different. That’s…

11 min read
The Singlehood Series: I Choose You But I Know You’re Not Mine
PotentashRelationships

The Singlehood Series: I Choose You But I Know You’re Not Mine

You meet someone on a random weekend. You didn’t even plan on going out, but you have cancelled on your friend countless times. You’re an adult now, fully aware that the friendships that last are the ones you nurture. The messages you…

4 min read
Her Past Comes Knocking Upending Their Present Bliss
PotentashRelationships

Her Past Comes Knocking Upending Their Present Bliss

Her blood chilled, and she registered the exact moment it happened. The precise moment he remembered who Jonathan was. To her. He stopped and turned to her, eyes meeting, holding. “Please tell me that’s not the Jonathan you used to…”…

5 min read
Love, Lies, And Money: The Hidden Costs Of Financial Deception
PotentashRelationships

Love, Lies, And Money: The Hidden Costs Of Financial Deception

Money conversations before marriage are never just about dollars and cents. They’re windows into character, communication styles, and the kind of partnership you’re building. When someone lies about their financial capacity, especially…

5 min read
We Met At A Funeral, And For A While, Grief Felt Just Like Love
PotentashRelationships

We Met At A Funeral, And For A While, Grief Felt Just Like Love

The funeral home smelled like lilies and regret. I didn’t want to be there, but Sarah had been my best friend’s sister, and some obligations transcend convenience. I grabbed a seat in the back, planning to pay my respects and leave…

9 min read
The Man She Loved Turned Out To Be A Monster
PotentashArts

The Man She Loved Turned Out To Be A Monster

Sam was this dashing man who looked good in almost everything he wore, even in his work uniform. We met in school, he was on the security detail at the school where I taught French. Police officers are rarely my type, but something about…

6 min read