5 Signs of "Quiet Quitting" in a Relationship.make this a better

In this episode of Dialogues With Jagero, Robertta Bobbie sits down once again with relationship and performance coach Shazmeen Bank for a deeply honest, unscripted masterclass on navigating modern relationships. Together, We unpack: -The difference between spontaneous chemistry and long-term conscious dating. -How unaddressed "small paper cuts" silently breed resentment. -Why anxious and avoidant attachment styles collide around physical and emotional desire. -What emotional safety actually looks like—and how to foster it without walking on eggshells. -Telltale signs of "quiet quitting" in long-term relationships and sexless marriages. -The vital skill of repairing conflict and knowing when it’s truly time to walk away and choose yourself. -Whether you are single, dating, or navigating marriage, this conversation offers grounded insights, tangible relationship rituals (like weekly check-ins), and practical wisdom to transform how you love. 💬 What was your biggest takeaway from this conversation? Drop your thoughts in the comments below! Key Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction: Reconnecting with Shazmeen Bank 04:35 – What Real Intimacy Actually Means (Beyond Physical Chemistry) 07:40 – Why Attachment Styles Emerge After the Honeymoon Phase 13:35 – The Power of Conscious Dating vs. Just "Going With the Flow" 17:20 – The "Paper Cut" Effect: How Small Issues Compound into Resentment 22:30 – Anxious vs. Avoidant Dynamics in the Bedroom and Beyond 31:35 – Defining Emotional Safety and Inner Nervous System Regulation 39:15 – The Magic of Weekly Check-Ins & Non-Sexual Touch 47:05 – Spotting "Quiet Quitting" and Fading Intimacy in Relationships 55:30 – Repairing Healthy Conflict vs. Knowing When to Walk Away Buy the Goldmine: Hustles For Africans here: https://dialogueswithjagero.com/goldmine Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3mEX7L5GcOnX7LVYYlHlaw/join For new episodes, subscribers only content, and job opportunities, subscrive here: https://dwj.beehiiv.com Wanna support the channel: Mpesa Till Number: 5253673 Or Buy Me Coffee here: buymeacoffee.com/jagero