Why Does Déjà Vu Happen?: Trauma, Complaining & the Truth About Modern Marriage

Why do we experience déjà vu? Why do some people become controversial? Are Kenyans genuinely unhappy—or are we simply living under pressures that make complaining feel normal? And what happens when unresolved pain enters a marriage? In this thought-provoking conversation,we sit down with hypnotherapist Tazim Elkington to explore the hidden psychology behind everyday experiences and relationship struggles. We discuss the mystery of déjà vu, why people can become polarising, the culture of complaining and dissatisfaction, the difference between real trauma and the way the word is casually misused, and why many modern marriages struggle to survive. This episode is an honest, challenging conversation about memory, emotional wounds, social pressure, communication, expectations, and the patterns we carry into love. Watch to the end and tell us: Which idea challenged the way you see yourself, your relationships, or society? Subscribe for more meaningful conversations, and share this episode with someone who enjoys psychology, relationships, healing, and difficult questions. SIGN UP ON LemFi using the IKONINI referral code, click on this link https://referral.lemonade.finance/invite/jmbLoTGSeDjjrCQa9 Iko Nini is a Kenya podcast that covers everything Kenyan entertainment, politics & social issues SUPPORT IKO NINI THROUGH CASHAPP $IKONINI BECOME A MEMBER FOR EARLY ACCESS & EXCLUSIVE CONTENT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5h4-WH0LAV4CWs380yM33A/join