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I grew up in a middle-income family but my parents worked hard to take my siblings and me to the best schools they could afford. I studied in a private school all through university, which exposed me to a life that I could only dream of…
I was bored, so I got on Instagram, where I saw him. Everything about his physical appearance ticked all my boxes. He was tall, had a chocolate complexion, was bald, with a beard that invited you to play with. His broad chest and chiselled…
There’s something sexy about a knowledgeable man who speaks passionately about something. That was what attracted me to George. I met him at a party at some point in the night; there was a debate on the global economy, and George schooled…
It was that time of year again. Sam didn’t particularly like it. His family had annual gatherings, and Sam’s mother expected everyone’s presence. Unless you were on your death bed in which case she would be there with you, Sam’s mother…
Bradley stood me up for a date that he’d practically begged me to show up at. Originally, we were supposed to meet at 12 p.m. He’d asked if I’d like some seafood and I agreed. He was to pick me up in town, then we would head to Kilimani…
During pregnancy, your body goes through a lot of changes meaning that you have to change a lot of things in your life. Your wardrobe, diet, workouts and most importantly, your skincare regimen have to change. Pregnant women experience an…
People have mixed feelings about sleep training their baby, just like with most parenting techniques. It’s either you’re a huge advocate or completely against it. However, if you have no idea what sleep training is, you can easily get…
“Babe,” Alicia called out to James or Jaymo, as she fondly called him. “How much do you need?” James asked her. “Aki babe, why are you making it sound like all I do is ask for money?” Alicia asked as she feigned a pout and curled her hair.…
A new yet so new trend has taken over social media, a phenomenon dubbed quiet quitting. Unlike traditional quitting, where an employee resigns from their job, quiet quitting involves not going above and beyond the duties listed in your job…
Cheating for all its ubiquity is heartbreaking when it happens to you. You end up overwhelmed with intense feelings including pain, anger, gut-wrenching grief, confusion and a deep sense of loss, even shame. The rollercoaster of emotions…
If you’re looking to buy your first vibrator, you’re not alone. Sex toys have become increasingly popular in recent years, and there are many different types of vibrators available to suit a wide range of preferences. Buying one can be…
Today on Pearls And Heels we feature Neema Nasirumbi. Neema Nasirumbi (Nem R) says “I am a deep thinker, born and raised in the ghetto of Langas, Eldoret. I am a musician. I am an independent Kenyan songwriter, singer and rapper. I have a…
Cohabitation is an arrangement where you live together and have a sexual relationship without being married. It is an arrangement that is becoming increasingly common, especially among younger people. In a society that prioritizes the…
Part of what makes life cosier is friendships. When one mentions friendship the things that come to mind are all the good things that come with friendship, including fun times, laughter, warmth, and support, rarely does anyone mention the…
A brain haemorrhage, also known as a brain bleed or an intracranial haemorrhage, refers to bleeding in the brain. It is a type of stroke that occurs when a blood vessel in the brain leaks or bursts and causes bleeding. Brain haemorrhages…
How long do you go before changing your pyjamas and other clothes? Most people choose how long to go without washing their night clothes based on what they were taught. But what do the experts say? Many factors determine how long you…
Brass jewellery is a staple since it is affordable, long-lasting and fashionable. It’s especially loved for its bright, golden shine that bears a close resemblance to real gold. However, unlike gold, brass easily becomes dull and tarnishes…
For Ben, a successful accountant, money was never a problem and he never thought it would ever be. However, he had one problem – his son. Being an only child, Daniel was a little spoilt and entitled. He dropped out of school and started…
I casually joke with my kids about how I must have been an award-winning actress in my previous life. If you haven’t watched Empire yet, you probably should because you’ll understand why sacrifices aren’t necessary sometimes. This is in…
We live in a world where there are so many things that give us joy. This is technically a good thing but when these things are easily accessible, they can cause a dopamine overload in the brain and decrease our reward sensitivity over…
Harry had been pursuing me for a really long time but I never saw him as anything more than just a friend. He was a great friend who I could rely on when things were not going well. However, whenever he tried to make a move on me, I would…
Dealing with a baby mama is stressful especially when they are as stubborn as Sheila. However, as my mother said when you got her pregnant, didn’t you know she was stubborn? I knew she was stubborn but let’s just blame it on the heat of…
When I started dating Lamar, I knew he was serious about his beliefs and religion. Whenever we talked, he would teach me something about his religion which I thought was really cute and sweet. He taught me phrases and greetings which…
I wasn’t a fan of the family WhatsApp group. I had been added several times but I managed to exit without anyone noticing. When someone finally caught on, my excuse was always that I wasn’t in the country and I had changed my number.…
